Household in a session, someone suddenly throws the audience a very common question,
"How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said "Yes .. it depends. Is he next to you that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
"Let me answer that question weighed heavily on this." Here's the answer! EVERY relationship has a cycle.
In the first moments of a relationship, you fell in love with her partner anda.Telpon always eagerly awaited, so unfortunately missed the caresses, and so fond of his change of attitude-spirited, so fun.
Fell in love with a partner is not difficult.
Falling in love is a very natural and so sepontan experience. No need to do anything.
So to say "fall" in love! People who are in love sometimes say, "I'm madly in love"
Imagine the expression!
As if you were just standing there doing nothing, and then all of a sudden something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy.
It's a passive and spontaneous
but ?
After several years of marriage, the euphoria of love it too will fade .. this change is the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely .. phone him become a bother, touch is not always expected and his enthusiastic attitude not so nice things, but instead add to the existing tired ..
The symptoms of this stage vary with each individual, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage, when you fall in love, and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage .
And in this situation the question "Did I marry the right person?" began to emerge, either from you or from your spouse, or from both of them ..
Why Now?
And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of love that never happened .. you may begin to euphoria, the euphoria that love with others.
And when the marriage was finally ran aground?
Busy blaming each partner for unhappiness and look outside the outlet.
Various ways, shapes and sizes for this outlet.
To deny the fidelity is the most obvious.
Some people prefer to keep myself busy with work, hobby, a friendship, watching TV to watch TVnya bored, or things that are more striking.
But know not!
That the answer to this dilemma does not exist outside, it was only in answer to the marriage itself.
Affair? Well maybe it's the answer
If I'm not saying you should not be cheating or not,
You can!
Could have been or may be you are cheating, and by then you'll feel better.
But it is temporary, and after a few years you will experience the same conditions
(as before in
your marriage).
Committed adultery with the dating process you will ever do with your spouse, a passion.
However, if the process is continued, then you will find the same situation with your marriage now.
It is a cycle ...
Why ..
(Please understand this carefully)
Committed adultery with the dating process you will ever do with your spouse, a passion.
However, if the process is continued, then you will find the same situation with your marriage now.
It is a cycle ...
Why ..
(Please understand this carefully)
KEY TO SUCCESS WEDDING
NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON,
BUT THE KEY
LEARN HOW ARE YOU FIND THE PEOPLE WHO LOVE AND CONTINUED ..!
Love is not a PASSIVE or experience a spontaneous love for granted will NEVER happen!
We will NOT be able to FIND love forever
We have to work from day to day.
Really have the expression "love"
Because it takes time, effort, and energy.
And most importantly, it takes WISDOM,
We have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about this one.
Love is not MYSTERY
There are some specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to the household running smoothly.
Similarly, the laws of the physical sciences (such as gravity), in a bond house there are also laws.
Just as proper diet and proper exercise can make you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.
This is a direct cause and effect.
If we know and apply these laws, surely we can "make" love not the "FALL".
Love in marriage is indeed a DECISION, not just FEELINGS ..!
if he had a love ..... she did not hear ... but always vibrating ....
if he had a love ..... he is not blind .. but always look and feel ..
if he had a love ..... he was not tortured but always test .. ..
if he had a love ..... it does not force .. but .. if he ever tried a love ..... she is not pretty .. but always interesting ..
if he had a love ..... he did not come up with words .. but it always came with a heart ..
if he had a love ..... he did not come out with a word .. but it always comes with the sun .. if he had a love ..... he not only promised .. but always try to win ..
if he had a love ..... he may not be sacred .. but always sincere ..
if he had a love ..... he did not attend because of a request .. but attend because of the provisions ...
if he had a love ..... he does not come with wealth and material things ... but it is present because of the sacrifice and loyalty .. Love your spouse, like you want to be loved by him
Be loyal to your mate, like you want to earn loyalty
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